Improving Our Communication Skills

by Rev. Ken Nienke, SBCV Church Growth Consultant - West                                                                                     Vol. XI, No. 8, September 1998

Ken Davis has said that seventy five percent of the people leaving a sermon have no idea what was communicated. How can we as preachers of the gospel know if we are being effective in communicating the truth of Scripture? One way is by asking those we respect to give us feedback and evaluation of our messages. Scary thought isn't it? I don't mean asking others for a critique of our biblical foundations for preaching, for that would mean succumbing to the whims of man rather than being faithful and true to God, but seeking honest appraisal of how we communicate. Much of what our congregation receives from a message is contingent upon content, but also critical is our communication style. God may give you tremendous insight into scripture, and yet if you are not able to impart those insights so that the congregation grasps them, then those pearls of blessing are wasted.

A key to becoming a more effective communicator is inviting godly brothers in Christ to serve as a sounding board for our sermons. This could be a deacon, close friend, fellow staff member, spouse, parents, or any others that will graciously point out strengths and blind spots. Charles H. Spurgeon said, "don't just throw the seed - grind it, bake it, slice it, and put a little honey on it." In order to develop the full sweetness of sermon delivery we often times need the answers to some tough questions.

Here then are some basic questions that could help others in providing us some analysis of our sermons:

> How well did I "warm up" to the congregation?

> What were the main points?

> Was my depth of study apparent, or did I appear to have "winged" it?

> Were my illustrations and quotes appropriate and relational to my exposition of the passage?

> In terms of application, what could you do as a result of this message?

> Was my eye contact varied, with at times focusing on specific people?

> Were my movements and gestures adequate and appropriate?

> Did I speak with conviction and passion?

Allowing others to answer these questions has greatly increased awareness of my speaking skills, both strengths and weaknesses. My prayer is that with awareness will come an ever-increasing ability to effectively communicate the truth of Scripture.

Let me suggest four resources for improving content and delivery in communication skills.

1. Teaching With Style by Bruce Wilkinson - This is available by attending or hosting a seminar in your church or area. It is also available in a video format for purchase. Call 1-800-868-9300.

2. The Empowered Communicator by Calvin Miller - Published by Broadman & Holman and available through Christian bookstores.

3. Dynamic Communicators Workshop by Ken Davis - A four day event that combines dynamic instruction, professional, constructive critique, and hands-on practice with preparation and delivery. Speeches are video taped for instant feedback. Regardless of skill level, this workshop will propel you to a new level of communication excellence. Call [303) 425-1319] or visit their website: www.kendavis.com for details.

4. Sermon Evaluation Guide - For a two-page guide helping others critique your content and delivery, contact Ken Nienke at the Roanoke Regional Office of the SBCV 540-362-4880.